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Everyone in life needs a teacher to learn and thrive. We fondly remember some of the teachers from our school days, but as we grow up, marry, and have children, we often think we’re ready to guide the next generation ourselves. But are we truly prepared? Don’t we still need guidance as adults? I believe we do. We all need a teacher or mentor throughout our lives.

Let’s revisit the Mahabharata era to learn about the legendary teacher, Dronacharya. A guru of unparalleled wisdom, he taught the Pandavas and Kauravas all they needed to know about warfare and duty. One of his admirers, Ekalavya, was not accepted into Dronacharya’s formal school. Undeterred, Ekalavya created a clay statue of Dronacharya and practiced rigorously before it, mastering the skills he observed from a distance. When Dronacharya discovered Ekalavya’s skill, he asked for a “guru dakshina” (a gift offered to one’s teacher). Ekalavya, prepared to offer anything, awaited his request. To everyone’s surprise, Dronacharya asked for Ekalavya’s right thumb, an essential part of his archery skill. Without hesitation, Ekalavya cut off his thumb and offered it, honoring his teacher’s wish.

Finding a true mentor is a rare privilege. When we do, it feels as if we’ve achieved half of life’s journey. Yet, a meaningful mentorship involves not just following a teacher but also evaluating their teachings, adopting only what resonates with our values and inner convictions. A great mentor inspires us to grow authentically, not blindly.

Fast forward to my mentor, Warren E. Buffett. Through his teachings, I’ve learned the importance of humility, lifelong learning, and integrity in investment. He has influenced millions, not just with his financial wisdom but with his character. Unlike Dronacharya, Buffett doesn’t require costly sacrifices as a sign of commitment. Instead, he advocates generosity. At the 2024 annual meeting, he reminded us, “If you are lucky in life, make sure others are lucky too.” His investments and knowledge have transformed countless lives, and he leads by example.

Simply thanking him feels insufficient. The best tribute I can offer is to live by the values he exemplifies—making a difference in the lives of others, just as he has.

Warren, I’ll strive to live by what you taught.

Disclaimer: This story is shared with deep respect for the legacy of Dronacharya, who remains a celebrated figure in Indian tradition. His approach, shaped by the cultural context of his time, emphasized discipline, loyalty, and self-sacrifice. Our intention is not to diminish his legacy but to draw a contrast in mentorship styles, illustrating how different eras and philosophies approach the role of a teacher.